ON FINDING LOVE, LOSING IT, AND MOVING ON.

Having someone who loves you is a special gift.  I've learned to honor it's coming and it's going.  Never taking it for granted.  To say what you mean and mean what you say.  I've learned that one should never regret losing someone who loves you, rather be happy in gaining a friend.  For Love is always kind.  Remembering that the physical fades, but what is shared between friends lasts forever.  Always.  Even lovers growing old become friends later on in life. So treasure love when you have it but let it go when it wants to be free.  Always end with a friend.  If you love someone, you always think of their future and what is good for them.  You do not think of yourself rather you sacrifice for their happiness.

I've learned that Love is never easy.  However, it is okay to grieve for it, one is only human. So you cry, and you cry and you cry, till there are no more tears to shed.  You cry for nine or more years then you learn from it and move on. Wallowing never helps.  Being bitter is not an option.  For Love is never selfish.  You always have the choice to be happy.  So when you catch yourself in a wallow - make an effort to snap out of it.  Love always begets Love.  So give away all the love in your heart and spread it around for others who may need it more.  Giving Love always helps.  I guarantee - this lifts ones spirit.  You find love all around you if you are open to it. 

I've also learned to never lose hope.  Hope springs eternal and Love is always patient.  So keep living and loving in your life. If someone stops loving you that does not mean your heart stops loving. Because Love manifests in so many different levels. A relationship never ends.  It just develops into some other form of love.  Love never ends.  It evolves, if you know what it truly means. 

HAPPY VALENTINE TO EVERYONE! IN ADVANCE!